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A i Aoyama is a sex and relationship counsellor who works out of her narrow three-storey home on a Tokyo back street. Her first name means "love" in Japanese, and is a keepsake from her earlier days as a professional dominatrix. Back then, about 15 years ago, she was Queen Ai, or Queen Love, and she did "all the usual things" like tying people up and dripping hot wax on their nipples.

Her work today, she says, is far more challenging. Aoyama, 52, is trying to cure what Japan's media calls sekkusu shinai shokogun , or "celibacy syndrome". Japan's unders appear to be losing interest in conventional relationships. Millions aren't even dating, and increasing numbers can't be bothered with sex. For their government, "celibacy syndrome" is part of a looming national catastrophe.

Japan already has one of the world's lowest birth rates. Its population of million , which has been shrinking for the past decade, is projected to plunge a further one-third by Aoyama believes the country is experiencing "a flight from human intimacy" — and it's partly the government's fault. The sign outside her building says "Clinic".

She greets me in yoga pants and fluffy animal slippers, cradling a Pekingese dog whom she introduces as Marilyn Monroe. In her business pamphlet, she offers up the gloriously random confidence that she visited North Korea in the s and squeezed the testicles of a top army general.

It doesn't say whether she was invited there specifically for that purpose, but the message to her clients is clear: Inside, she takes me upstairs to her "relaxation room" — a bedroom with no furniture except a double futon. Aoyama's first task with most of her clients is encouraging them "to stop apologising for their own physical existence".

The number of single people has reached a record high. Another study found that a third of people under 30 had never dated at all. There are no figures for same-sex relationships. Although there has long been a pragmatic separation of love and sex in Japan — a country mostly free of religious morals — sex fares no better.

More than a quarter of men felt the same way. Many people who seek her out, says Aoyama, are deeply confused. They're coming to me because they think that, by wanting something different, there's something wrong with them. Official alarmism doesn't help. Fewer babies were born here in than any year on record.

This was also the year, as the number of elderly people shoots up, that adult incontinence pants outsold baby nappies in Japan for the first time. Kunio Kitamura, head of the JFPA, claims the demographic crisis is so serious that Japan "might eventually perish into extinction". Japan's unders won't go forth and multiply out of duty, as postwar generations did.

The country is undergoing major social transition after 20 years of economic stagnation. It is also battling against the effects on its already nuclear-destruction-scarred psyche of 's earthquake, tsunami and radioactive meltdown.

There is no going back. They don't believe it can lead anywhere," says Aoyama. Marriage has become a minefield of unattractive choices. Japanese men have become less career-driven, and less solvent, as lifetime job security has waned. Japanese women have become more independent and ambitious. Yet conservative attitudes in the home and workplace persist.

Japan's punishing corporate world makes it almost impossible for women to combine a career and family, while children are unaffordable unless both parents work. Cohabiting or unmarried parenthood is still unusual, dogged by bureaucratic disapproval.

Aoyama says the sexes, especially in Japan's giant cities, are "spiralling away from each other". Lacking long-term shared goals, many are turning to what she terms "Pot Noodle love" — easy or instant gratification, in the form of casual sex, short-term trysts and the usual technological suspects: Or else they're opting out altogether and replacing love and sex with other urban pastimes.

Some of Aoyama's clients are among the small minority who have taken social withdrawal to a pathological extreme. They are recovering hikikomori "shut-ins" or recluses taking the first steps to rejoining the outside world, otaku geeks , and long-term parasaito shingurus parasite singles who have reached their mids without managing to move out of home. Of the estimated 13 million unmarried people in Japan who currently live with their parents, around three million are over the age of They flinch if I touch them," she says.

Keen to see her nation thrive, she likens her role in these cases to that of the Edo period courtesans, or oiran , who used to initiate samurai sons into the art of erotic pleasure. Aversion to marriage and intimacy in modern life is not unique to Japan. Nor is growing preoccupation with digital technology. But what endless Japanese committees have failed to grasp when they stew over the country's procreation-shy youth is that, thanks to official shortsightedness, the decision to stay single often makes perfect sense.

This is true for both sexes, but it's especially true for women. For Japanese women today, marriage is the grave of their hard-won careers. Tomita has a job she loves in the human resources department of a French-owned bank. A fluent French speaker with two university degrees, she avoids romantic attachments so she can focus on work.

After that, I lost interest in dating. It became awkward when the question of the future came up. Tomita says a woman's chances of promotion in Japan stop dead as soon as she marries.

You end up being a housewife with no independent income. It's not an option for women like me. The World Economic Forum consistently ranks Japan as one of the world's worst nations for gender equality at work. Social attitudes don't help. Married working women are sometimes demonised as oniyome , or "devil wives". Her end was not pretty. Prime minister Shinzo Abe recently trumpeted long-overdue plans to increase female economic participation by improving conditions and daycare, but Tomita says things would have to improve "dramatically" to compel her to become a working wife and mother.

I go out with my girl friends — career women like me — to French and Italian restaurants. I buy stylish clothes and go on nice holidays.

I love my independence. Tomita sometimes has one-night stands with men she meets in bars, but she says sex is not a priority, either. They assume I'm desperate because I'm single. Mendokusai translates loosely as "Too troublesome" or "I can't be bothered". It's the word I hear both sexes use most often when they talk about their relationship phobia.

Romantic commitment seems to represent burden and drudgery, from the exorbitant costs of buying property in Japan to the uncertain expectations of a spouse and in-laws. And the centuries-old belief that the purpose of marriage is to produce children endures. The sense of crushing obligation affects men just as much. Satoru Kishino, 31, belongs to a large tribe of men under 40 who are engaging in a kind of passive rebellion against traditional Japanese masculinity.

Amid the recession and unsteady wages, men like Kishino feel that the pressure on them to be breadwinning economic warriors for a wife and family is unrealistic. They are rejecting the pursuit of both career and romantic success. Kishino says he doesn't mind the label because it's become so commonplace.

He defines it as "a heterosexual man for whom relationships and sex are unimportant". The phenomenon emerged a few years ago with the airing of a Japanese manga-turned-TV show. The lead character in Otomen "Girly Men" was a tall martial arts champion, the king of tough-guy cool.

Secretly, he loved baking cakes, collecting "pink sparkly things" and knitting clothes for his stuffed animals. To the tooth-sucking horror of Japan's corporate elders, the show struck a powerful chord with the generation they spawned. Kishino, who works at a fashion accessories company as a designer and manager, doesn't knit. But he does like cooking and cycling, and platonic friendships. Emotional entanglements are too complicated," he says. Romantic apathy aside, Kishino, like Tomita, says he enjoys his active single life.

Ironically, the salaryman system that produced such segregated marital roles — wives inside the home, husbands at work for 20 hours a day — also created an ideal environment for solo living.

Japan's cities are full of conveniences made for one, from stand-up noodle bars to capsule hotels to the ubiquitous konbini convenience stores , with their shelves of individually wrapped rice balls and disposable underwear.

And Japan's cities are extraordinarily crime-free. Some experts believe the flight from marriage is not merely a rejection of outdated norms and gender roles. It could be a long-term state of affairs. Is Japan providing a glimpse of all our futures? Many of the shifts there are occurring in other advanced nations, too.

Across urban Asia, Europe and America, people are marrying later or not at all, birth rates are falling, single-occupant households are on the rise and, in countries where economic recession is worst, young people are living at home.

But demographer Nicholas Eberstadt argues that a distinctive set of factors is accelerating these trends in Japan. These factors include the lack of a religious authority that ordains marriage and family, the country's precarious earthquake-prone ecology that engenders feelings of futility, and the high cost of living and raising children.

With a vast army of older people and an ever-dwindling younger generation, Japan may become a "pioneer people" where individuals who never marry exist in significant numbers, he said. Japan's somethings are the age group to watch.

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This is true for both sexes, but it's especially true for women. For Japanese women today, marriage is the grave of their hard-won careers. Tomita has a job she loves in the human resources department of a French-owned bank. A fluent French speaker with two university degrees, she avoids romantic attachments so she can focus on work. After that, I lost interest in dating. It became awkward when the question of the future came up.

Tomita says a woman's chances of promotion in Japan stop dead as soon as she marries. You end up being a housewife with no independent income. It's not an option for women like me. The World Economic Forum consistently ranks Japan as one of the world's worst nations for gender equality at work. Social attitudes don't help. Married working women are sometimes demonised as oniyome , or "devil wives". Her end was not pretty. Prime minister Shinzo Abe recently trumpeted long-overdue plans to increase female economic participation by improving conditions and daycare, but Tomita says things would have to improve "dramatically" to compel her to become a working wife and mother.

I go out with my girl friends — career women like me — to French and Italian restaurants. I buy stylish clothes and go on nice holidays. I love my independence. Tomita sometimes has one-night stands with men she meets in bars, but she says sex is not a priority, either. They assume I'm desperate because I'm single. Mendokusai translates loosely as "Too troublesome" or "I can't be bothered".

It's the word I hear both sexes use most often when they talk about their relationship phobia. Romantic commitment seems to represent burden and drudgery, from the exorbitant costs of buying property in Japan to the uncertain expectations of a spouse and in-laws. And the centuries-old belief that the purpose of marriage is to produce children endures.

The sense of crushing obligation affects men just as much. Satoru Kishino, 31, belongs to a large tribe of men under 40 who are engaging in a kind of passive rebellion against traditional Japanese masculinity. Amid the recession and unsteady wages, men like Kishino feel that the pressure on them to be breadwinning economic warriors for a wife and family is unrealistic. They are rejecting the pursuit of both career and romantic success.

Kishino says he doesn't mind the label because it's become so commonplace. He defines it as "a heterosexual man for whom relationships and sex are unimportant". The phenomenon emerged a few years ago with the airing of a Japanese manga-turned-TV show. The lead character in Otomen "Girly Men" was a tall martial arts champion, the king of tough-guy cool. Secretly, he loved baking cakes, collecting "pink sparkly things" and knitting clothes for his stuffed animals.

To the tooth-sucking horror of Japan's corporate elders, the show struck a powerful chord with the generation they spawned. Kishino, who works at a fashion accessories company as a designer and manager, doesn't knit. But he does like cooking and cycling, and platonic friendships. Emotional entanglements are too complicated," he says. Romantic apathy aside, Kishino, like Tomita, says he enjoys his active single life. Ironically, the salaryman system that produced such segregated marital roles — wives inside the home, husbands at work for 20 hours a day — also created an ideal environment for solo living.

Japan's cities are full of conveniences made for one, from stand-up noodle bars to capsule hotels to the ubiquitous konbini convenience stores , with their shelves of individually wrapped rice balls and disposable underwear.

And Japan's cities are extraordinarily crime-free. Some experts believe the flight from marriage is not merely a rejection of outdated norms and gender roles. It could be a long-term state of affairs.

Is Japan providing a glimpse of all our futures? Many of the shifts there are occurring in other advanced nations, too. Across urban Asia, Europe and America, people are marrying later or not at all, birth rates are falling, single-occupant households are on the rise and, in countries where economic recession is worst, young people are living at home.

But demographer Nicholas Eberstadt argues that a distinctive set of factors is accelerating these trends in Japan. These factors include the lack of a religious authority that ordains marriage and family, the country's precarious earthquake-prone ecology that engenders feelings of futility, and the high cost of living and raising children.

With a vast army of older people and an ever-dwindling younger generation, Japan may become a "pioneer people" where individuals who never marry exist in significant numbers, he said. Japan's somethings are the age group to watch. Most are still too young to have concrete future plans, but projections for them are already laid out. According to the government's population institute, women in their early 20s today have a one-in-four chance of never marrying.

Their chances of remaining childless are even higher: They don't seem concerned. Emi Kuwahata, 23, and her friend, Eri Asada, 22, meet me in the shopping district of Shibuya. Kuwahata, a fashion graduate, is in a casual relationship with a man 13 years her senior. I'm trying to become a fashion designer. I don't miss boyfriends or sex. I don't even like holding hands. Asada insists nothing happened to put her off physical contact. She just doesn't want a relationship and casual sex is not a good option, she says, because "girls can't have flings without being judged".

Although Japan is sexually permissive, the current fantasy ideal for women under 25 is impossibly cute and virginal.

In the Japan Family Planning Association's study on sex among young people, there was far more data on men than women. I asked the association's head, Kunio Kitamura, why. Over iced tea served by skinny-jeaned boys with meticulously tousled hair, Asada and Kuwahata say they share the usual singleton passions of clothes, music and shopping, and have hectic social lives. But, smart phones in hand, they also admit they spend far more time communicating with their friends via online social networks than seeing them in the flesh.

Japanese-American author Roland Kelts , who writes about Japan's youth, says it's inevitable that the future of Japanese relationships will be largely technology driven.

Its smart phone apps are the world's most imaginative. But he also believes the rest of the world is not far behind. Getting back to basics, former dominatrix Ai Aoyama — Queen Love — is determined to educate her clients on the value of "skin-to-skin, heart-to-heart" intimacy. She accepts that technology will shape the future, but says society must ensure it doesn't take over. There are literally tens of millions of single women in this vast area who would prefer to marry a Western man than a local guy, but until the advent of the internet it was difficult for a foreign man to find an Asian wife.

Now, an American or European man can log on to a variety of websites and see that there are innumerable Asian women online who are beautiful, talented, and really want to marry a Western man. And many men are really interested in meeting an Asian woman because of their beauty and sex appeal, but also because of the traditional view of marriage that most Asian women still have.

Girls in China, Vietnam, and the rest of Asia grow up in a culture that still places an enormous amount of importance on being a good wife. Most Asian women want to be the primary source of joy and happiness for their husband. Yes, it is true that things do not always work out perfectly, but the overwhelming majority of Asian women really want to be a great wife in a way that is a little unusual in the West today. Asian mail order brides have a reputation for being exceptionally devoted to their husbands and children.

Most of them are not trying to balance marriage and a career. For most Asian wives any career is clearly a secondary consideration, often to be considered only after the children are grown. For a lot of men from the United States or Europe that is extremely attractive, but there are things that a man needs to consider.

They want a special Western man who understands their individual needs. If you want to be that special man for a beautiful Asian lady read closely and pay attention. Before you get worked up about it marriages that develop from meetings on the international dating sites here on International Love Scout are NOT arranged marriages.

It is important for a Western man to have some understanding of the tradition of arranged marriages in Asian culture. It is hard to imagine in the twenty-first century, but until about seventy years ago nearly all Asian women were married in arranged marriages. If this system had not broken down international marriages would be extremely rare in Asia and the modern Asian mail order bride movement could have never developed.

Until at least World War II there were heavy cultural restrictions designed to control the choices young women had for their mate — generally through the process of an arranged marriages. After Asia was swept up in a wave of anti-colonial movements that not only pushed out the French, British, Dutch, and Americans but also knocked down many of the traditional cultural restraints that had prevented young women from dating and marrying whomever they wanted.

In the s and s women across Asia got a small dose of Western feminism that led to the end of many of the harshest constraints on young women, like foot binding and the general policy of not educating girls, but Asian women did not buy into the entire feminist manifesto.

Asian women took the good parts of feminism and stopped before they went stark raving mad like many women in the United States, Europe, and especially Canada. These political and cultural changes encouraged Asian brides challenge the patriarchal societal norms that forced women to decide on a mate from a very small pool of men or simply accept as a husband whomever they were told to marry.

Arranged marriages of some sort were the norm, but it has to be remembered that the betrothed — either the bride or the groom — often had no say in whom they were marrying, and it is probably best to regard these arrangements as forced marriage.

A father might allow his wife or daughter input into his decision about which suitor to choose, but usually he did not have to ask her. And sometimes a father did not have much choice because of caste rules and traditional family alliances.

Sometimes this might mean the entire acceptable marriage pool for a woman might be one single man. Other times the father of the bride might have to defer his decision to village elders or even her his creditors selected for her. In an arranged marriage a woman has to marry someone that she is not in love with for the good of her family. A young woman usually focuses on marriage as a duty to her family and community and hopes to eventually grow to love her husband.

Despite these changes the tradition of arranged marriage is still strong across much of Asia, particularly in India. It is hard to get good statistics about just what percentage of women are pushed into forced marriages across Asia, but the number is significant. And even where the practice has largely died out the basic contours of the practice continue to have an important influence, but it is nothing like it was a hundred years ago.

What does that mean? It means that for most Asian co-eds or young professionals still will not marry without the approval of their families. Until the very few Western men would ever meet an Asian woman for marriage, because of the vast distances which made travel and communication difficulties. However, starting in the s technology began to change things. First, radio swept over Asia allowing sexy Asian women to listen to Western pop music and then television, which introduced many women across the region to Western material culture.

This is important, because no matter how hot a Vietnamese girl is she is probably never going to become your wife or girlfriend if you have absolutely no common interests.

So, the fact that radio, television, and films helped create some understanding between Asian countries and the West makes it much more likely that meetings will grow into relationships. The Boeing overcame the travel problems by allowing passenger airlines to introduce reliable jet service in The creation of the internet in the s overcame the communication challenges.

They often WANT to be mail order brides in a way that even ladies from the most remote corner of Russia or Romania would balk at, because of the cultural residue of arranged marriage that makes the practice less jarring than for many Eastern European or Latin women.

With those odds just about any half way decent guy should be able to find a beautiful Asian bride. These women deserve to be treated with kindness and respect and if you cannot do that, please close this page and spend some time getting your life in order first. Asia is a huge area with vast disparities in wealth and education levels even within the same country. So, one of the main things to remember is to investigate the individual country and where the lady you are interested in is from.

The biggest difference among Asian women probably is where they actually grew up. If she is a city girl, regardless of her nation, she is much more likely to have been influenced by Western media and culture, but if she is a country girl she is likely to be much more a product of traditional Asian culture. You just need to be aware of this urban — rural breakdown.

It really matters, but you should remember that the modern Asian woman, even one from a small village, is different from the mythic Asian bride of old. These women have grown up online, informed, and are very modern girls in many respects, and, really, it is worth remembering that Cico-Cico San was a very strong individual.

Traditionally, Asian wives might not have challenged their husband directly, but they often had a lot of subtle power. But it is important to remember that although most Asian mail order brides will seem extremely conservative to their Western husbands that these women are really trailblazers because they are not allowing nearly as much influence from their family as previous generations.

Lots of guys wonder why so many Asian ladies decide to become mail order brides. They often suspect that the ladies are simply scammers. That is totally unfair. There are a lot of reasons why beautiful, talented women from across Asia sign up with international dating agencies. Their reasons are almost universally sweet, kind, and completely logical. Poverty is of course part of the equation. Asia has witnessed an incredible economic expansion in the years since , but income distribution remains incredibly unequal.

So, many beautiful Asian girls are living in abject poverty, but really most of those women are not online. They are still too poor to get online. Most of the Chinese, Thai, and Vietnamese ladies you meet online come from relatively middle-class families. Many of them are college students. Some are very successful, particularly among the Chinese women, because the Chinese economy has opened many opportunities for smart, driven ladies, but societal expectation have not kept pace with economic growth.

For Chinese women who have become doctors, lawyers, and engineers this is a romantic and professional disaster. These women have a stark choice: There is even a name for these women: Nearly, all of these ladies have heard from stories about women from their area who are happily married to a man from the United States or the European Union or perhaps Australia or New Zealand. Today many of these women are actually are in touch with their relatives or friends who are already living in the United States or other Western nations.

They know that Western men tend to treat their women differently than most traditional Asian men. To some extent these ladies, like women across Latin America and Eastern Europe, watch Hollywood movies and television shows. They see sweet kind men who generally treat their women with a level of devotion and respect rare in the society they grew up in.

The vast majority of the Asian girls have been raised in heavily patriarchal societies. Men do not ask their wives opinions. However, it is wrong to assume that this means that these women are submissive, but often the simply do not have any other option until they begin watching Western movies and television shows. So when you meet Asian women thank God and Thomas Edison for Hollywood, buddy, because it lets these lovely ladies know how they should be treated.

In Asia girls often are still married off in arranged marriages in some areas. In the worst cases girls are still sold like cattle. Sometimes the women have never even met their groom until their wedding day. Most Western guys who sign up at an International dating agency are not looking to buy a sex slave. Asia girls are often frustrated that the men in their countries are not very romantic and that is one of the primary reasons that they sign up to be Asian mail order brides.

The woman may be defying the wishes of her family to marry a man from a Western country, because in some Asian countries it is still taboo to marry outside of your own ethnic or religious group. So, the point is, don't assume that you know that much about Asian women. A lot of the stereotypes are outdated, unfair, and will get you into a lot of trouble. Most Western guys really are looking for romance even if they feel like they have to travel halfway around the world to find it and there are many beautiful Asian mail order brides who are incredibly happy to be romanced.

Asian brides are generally not as likely to offer their opinions as other women even when their husbands ask for their opinion. Many men like this situation initially, but it means that in an emergency the husband is completely responsible for the success or failure of the family. Sometimes that puts more pressure on husbands than they really want, at least when things get tough. All relationships grow and change and many men who build successful marriages with Asian brides begin planning for these responsibilities grow and change.

Early in the marriage the husband will probably be willing to accept all of the responsibilities, but gradually he will be happy to see the relationship grow and change so that he does not have to make every household and child-rearing decision. And if the husband is significantly older than his wife he will want his wife to be able to make good decisions about his healthcare in his old age. Asian cultures are generally very relationship oriented. They do not like "dating" or going from one person to the next.

To the average Asian woman, her dream is to find a man and spend the rest of her life with him.

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